OK folks, let's tone things down here.
Let's keep it simple: billy, just confirm that you are running your team and not letting Grandad log in and run the show. Then the story is over. Shadow Dancers should not make wild unsubstantiated accusations.
Billy, if you are letting Grandad control everything, then, yes, the tutoring may have gone too far. It's not tutoring, but more like "Operation Varsity Blues" where you are hiring someone to take the test for you. Personally, based on what I am observing, I don't think that's happening. This still looks like a billy run team. But let's clear the air and put the petty arguments to rest.